As-Salamu Alaykum brothers and sisters,
In the Name Of ALLAH (Subhanahu wa ta'ala) the Most Gracious The Most Merciful:
My Dear Beloved Sisters in Faith ,
I was into this dilemma of how to express my concerns for you, in this issue.. this issue holds grave importance in current times, i really did not wantto poke my head into this but was forced to do so due to some personal experiences. Very Disturbing experiences which i don't like to share, but what I'm trying to illustrate in my note is the importance of modesty among us especially u dear sisters _ I will begin with certain ayath from the book of ALLAH ( the most Exalted & most High) ♥
I seek refuge with ALLAH from shaita'n , the cursed one •
In the name of ALLAH , the extraordinarily Merciful, the ever Merciful , Surah Al Noor : ♥
Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts). That is purer for them. Verily, Allâh is All-Aware of what they do. (30)
And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts) and not to show off their adornment except only that which is apparent (like both eyes for necessity to see the way or outer dress like veil, gloves, head-cover, apron, etc.), and to draw their veils all over Juyubihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms,) and not to reveal their adornment except to their husbands, or their fathers, or their husband's fathers, or their sons, or their husband's sons, or their brothers or their brother's sons, or their sister's sons, or their (Muslim) women (i.e. their sisters in Islâm), or the (female) slaves whom their right hands possess, or old male servants who lack vigour, or small children who have no sense of the feminine sex. And let them not stamp their feet so as to reveal what they hide of their adornment. And all of you beg Allâh to forgive you all, O believers, that you may be successful[] (31)
[Al Noor : Noble Quran] ♥
This is the Command of ALLAH ( the most Exalted & most High) ♥ My Sisters must understand that , the men are created weak, they need ur support to stay productive, and it is basic courtesy to abide by the rules ALLAH ( the most Exalted & most High) laid down for our own productivity. It is honestly a great distraction for a pure Man, when he see's a beautiful face, sure disturbs Him , and affects his productivity ♥ We get so desensitized to it that we don't find the big deal in it , when ALLAH ( the most Exalted & most High) Tells us these things. Women have to understand that the Men's attraction towards the women is unlike that of theirs' towards men, ALLAH ( the most Exalted & most High) says :
♥ “Beautified for men is the Love of things they covet; women, children, much of gold and silver (wealth), branded beautiful horses, cattle and well-tilled land. This is the pleasure of the present world’s Life; but Allaah has the excellent return (Paradise with flowing rivers) with Him.” [3: 14]♥
Subhan ALLAH ( the most Exalted & most High) the no. 1 fitnah ALLAH ( the most Exalted & most High) mentioned here as what men covet is the Women . you should understand this and help ur brothers channelize their desires in the most noblest of manners. Sure will be rewarded a lot. I am refering in general modesty as well as about uploading your pictures to facebook, do you have any idea, in what all ways do people look at you. it pathetic . You ll be answerable to all the disturbance u caused to the people who see it. don't think lightly of the matter, it stabs a brother, a father, a husband to find out that their own sister, daughter , wife is being looked at as an object rather than a human being. ♥
If you want respect and not to be bothered please follow the teachings of our creator, we have blessed with a beautiful way of life, Alhamdulillahi Rubbil Alameen.♥ Lets not be ashamed to wear our Hijab, lets not give silly excuses any more , It is obviously hard to do it, Do u know why , because when u do , You are a Walking Talking , Symbol of Our Beautiful Deen ♥ , & Shaitan ( may ALLAH protect us from his harm) will work overtime to make u slip, loose patience, He ll bring up ur closest people to come and ask you , are u mad ? take that thing off , kind a thing :| , its a fact. I would'nt make this boring anymore I ll end with a beautiful verse from ALLAH's Book ♥
♥ If Allâh helps you, none can overcome you; and if He forsakes you, who is there after Him that can help you? And in Allâh (Alone) let believers put their trust. (160) [The Family of Imran , Surah 3] ♥
post by brother Sheikh Ma'soom and Noor Bin Mohammed, JazakALLAH Khayran.
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